I hate it when an artist makes a song and it feels like something you want to swandive into and spend the next week drowning in and it’s only 4 minutes long and the rest of the album sounds nothing like it
fatness itself can be a focal point for gender dysphoria and i dont think people talk about that enough. fat bodies are caught in this limbo where their fatness and traits are viewed as masculine, feminine, or androgynous depending on a frustrating amount of factors. to the point that the only way to be seen as doing gender right is to perform masculinity or femininity to the max.
so you’re pretty much fucked if you cant or wont do that. especially if you’re aiming for androgyny or neutrality, because society’s idea of that only exists for skinny people. it’s not fair. we of course don’t have to hold ourselves to unattainable standards but it would be really great if it were possible to express androgyny or neutrality as a fat person and have it received as such (without it being fatphobic). fuck fatphobia and gender roles so hard.
my brother started calling our cat “doobie brother” which he then lengthened to “dubious brother” and has since morphed into “brother dubious” like he’s some sort of fucked up little monk
